CLI and Me: A Blueprint for Bold Leadership

Growing up as a female engineering student in Nigeria, I quickly realized that leadership was often seen as a man’s domain.

In my undergraduate years, especially, it was rare — almost unheard of — to see women in leadership roles within engineering clubs or student organizations. Men were often assumed to be the natural choice for positions of authority, while women who expressed interest were questioned, overlooked, or subtly discouraged.

These experiences shaped a belief in me that leadership might be out of reach, and I often chose to stay in the background, doubting whether I had what it took to lead.

This sense of limitation persisted into my early career as an engineer. Support systems for women aspiring to leadership were few and far between. I struggled with self-doubt, convincing myself that I lacked the skills, experience, or confidence to take on significant responsibility.

Then came the Society of Women Engineers (SWE) Collegiate Leadership Institute (CLI), and with it, a turning point. Through CLI, I was introduced to incredible women leaders across various industries.

Their stories were not ones of ease, but of persistence, courage, and the belief that their efforts would be worth it. They showed me that leadership isn’t reserved for a select few — it’s something you grow into through consistent effort and belief in your worth

CLI didn’t just inspire me — it equipped me. I gained critical skills in communication, public speaking, teamwork, time management, and perhaps most profoundly, listening. Learning to truly listen to my peers, to mentors, and to myself has drastically transformed both my leadership and my social life. I’ve become more empathetic, more collaborative, and more confident in navigating difficult conversations and leading with intention.

Every session in the program gave me the opportunity to reflect on my strengths, identify areas for growth, and actively practice new skills. I left each one feeling more prepared — not just to lead within SWE, but to lead in life. CLI empowered me to step forward, take up space, and believe that my voice truly matters.

For anyone unsure of their leadership potential or worried they don’t have the skills yet, CLI is the kind of experience that shifts mindsets and opens doors. I’m grateful to have been part of it, and I will carry its lessons with me in every space I step into.

The SWE Collegiate Leadership Institute (CLI) is a year-round program dedicated to identifying, supporting, and better preparing female collegiate engineering students to become the leaders of tomorrow in STEM. Check the CLI page for more information and to apply!